Tande-ism: Lessons learned in the past create your future.
Client Coaching Session: I met a woman at a Christmas reception whose comments seemed to reflect the thoughts of others. She said, “This is really a critical time in my life. I just want to brush off the grunge of last year. And, I am looking forward to starting fresh, with a new sense of purpose.” I asked her to explain further. “Well, I achieved some of my goals, but I just did not accomplish everything I planned. While I had great ideas, I had a hard time staying focused because distractions seemed to pop up all the time. I want to do more in 2008, but how can I be sure I am more productive this year than last?” She sighed!
Coaching Moment: There is something about ringing in the New Year that is a pivotal point in most people’s lives. This is a time to pause and think about how to make the most in 2008. Therefore, if you are a true student of life, there is much to learn from each success or mistake made in 2007. Remember, we all make mistakes! Don’t bury your head in the sand and ignore the beauty of the lesson within! Decide to act differently; review what you’ve done and find the learning in it. You just might discover some life defining moments!
Oh, one more thing…"what you focus on is what you get." If you focus on the distractions, you’ll attract more distractions. I know, you must tend to some interruptions, however, if you stay consciously focused on your professional and personal goals, you are likely to achieve more than you think possible.
Just like the realtors talk about the highest and best use of real estate, I suggest you think about the highest and best use of your time as it relates to your goals! By employing the 80/20 rule, commit to devote 20% of your time to generate 80% quality results. You can do it!
What goals did you accomplish in 2007? What did you learn from these successes?
What setbacks did you experience in 2007 and what can you learn from those?
In what ways did you limit yourself? How will you expand your efforts?
Step into your greatness!
2 comments:
Coach Weaver,
I want to tell you how unbelievably amazing your Website is. I read your blog from Chicago where it is currently one of the most depressing months on record, historically. With the cold and overcast days here, many people feel the need for motivation daily. Your blog is a MUCH better pick-me up than a shot of Starbucks anyday! Thank you for the long-distance coaching.
By the way, I love the photo of your family-how gorgeous!
-The Preppy Debutante
Chicago, IL
Coach Weaver,
I agree with you on …"what you focus on is what you get." I have read "The 4-Hour Work Week" by Timothy Ferriss and have started to incorporate some of his suggestions for focusing into my life. One thing that has worked successfully for me, in my business, has been to identify the few critical tasks (in my case, those that generate income) and attaching very short deadlines to those tasks. There's more to keeping focus than just prioritizing your tasks and getting them done in short amounts of time; I think half the battle is what you had stated, "if you stay consciously focused on your professional and personal goals, you are likely to achieve more than you think possible." This year, I want to achieve more and I'm consciously trying to stay focused on things that move me closer to my goals.
Thanks for this topic!
Sharon Marsh, Ph.D.
The Biz Accountability Expert
www.sharonmarsh.com
"Helping women entrepreneurs structure their business for success, wealth and balance."
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